Your Fat Loss Potential and a Swift Kick In The Butt
by Scott Tousignant · Filed Under: Motivation
Every once in a while you need a swift kick in the butt to get you back on track and living to your full potential. I recently received a kick in the butt from my mentor and coach Deb Micek. She actually called me ‘WEAK’, can you believe that? Not weak physically, but mentally. I was coasting through life and she let me know it.
Are you ready for your butt kicking? Watch this quickie video clip from the movie “Rocky Balboa“. In this clip Rocky gives his son the kick in the butt that he needs to get back on track and living to his potential.
How Winning Is Done!
Let’s discus some of the key points from the Rocky Balboa Speech…
The first important point thing that Rocky tells his son is, “When things got hard you started looking for something to blame.”
Now let’s turn this back to you and your fat loss journey. Have you found yourself in a situation where things are going really great… you’re working out regularly, eating well, and feel awesome, then after four to six weeks something happens… you’re faced with a challenge or obstacle and you fall off the wagon.
What is some of the self talk that goes on in your head when this happens and what do you tell others? Do you say, “Here I go again, I always end up sabotaging myself.” Do you say, “I’m just too busy to workout regularly, I’ve got kids and my work schedule is demanding.” Do you say, “That diet didn’t work, it’s too strict.” Or do you blame it on the genetics that your parents passed down to you?
Where do you look to place the blame when the going gets tough?
Let’s take a look at the next point that Rocky makes to his son. “It’s not about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward… how much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!”
Again, we’ll use this statement and compare it to your fat loss journey…
It’s absolutely important that you give each workout your very best effort. Hit each workout hard! It’s absolutely important that you give your best effort to following a healthy nutrition plan. Hit it with your best shot!
But that’s not what will ultimately make you successful at burning all that unwanted body fat from your physique. The defining moments of winning the fat loss game are the ones where you get hit hard by an obstacle or challenge and you get back up stronger than ever before and continue moving forward toward your goals.
Those moments where you feel at your lowest, whether you missed a few workouts because you were sick or you go way overboard on junk food while you are out with your friends at a party, these are these are the moments that you actually want to experience because they help you grow as an individual and become the best that you can be.
Obstacles and challenges happen for a reason. They are not designed to make you fail… they are designed to help you succeed. How’s that for a mindset shift?
Let’s take a look at another important comment that Rocky tells his son, “If you know what your worth than go out and get what you’re worth, but you’ve got to be willing to take the hits and not pointing fingers and saying you ain’t where you want to be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!”
Do you know what you are worth? Are you willing to go out and get it even though it means that you are going to have to take some hits and get knocked down several times along the way to receive what you are worth?
I know that you are worth more than you may be thinking at this moment. Take some time and really think about what you are honestly worth.
I also know that you are better than the effort that you have been putting forth. How do I know that? Because we can all do better. We can all dig deeper. We can all push our limits. We can all experience a new level of greatness.
Here’s one last important statement that Rocky makes in this clip, “Until you start believing in yourself you’re not going to have a life.”
Wow! How’s that for a kick in the butt? That’s some serious tough love, but if you have seen the movie you know that it was exactly what Rocky’s son needed to hear. Rather than get defensive he took that hit from his dad, let it soak in, and used it to explore who he really is and what he is really worth.
We all have goals and dreams, but do you believe that you will achieve them? I mean deep down with every ounce of your being believe that you will achieve them?
If you don’t truly believe that you will reach your goals I strongly recommend that you listen to the amazing 18 minute audio that I did with Fat Loss Expert Tom Venuto on overcoming limiting beliefs. You can download it and listen to it over and over again.
Losing weight is not easy. Maintaining that weight loss is not easy either. Believing in yourself is not always the easiest thing to do as you may have experienced. Striving to continuously discover new ways to improve yourself, your body, and your health, takes a heck of a lot of work. But the rewards are always well worth the price that you had to pay in order to achieve them.
No one and nothing is holding you back from achieving the body and life that you deserve except for yourself. Take responsibility. Take massive action. Take the hits and keep moving forward. Focus on your goal and don’t stop until you’ve achieved it. Turn your WISH into a MUST! Don’t just HOPE for it to happen… EXPECT it to happen.
Embrace the challenges that you are faced with and use them to sculpt the body and life that you deserve.
Carve out a new path and lay down the pavement for others to follow so they too will experience the incredible successes that you are about to achieve.
It’s time for progress and growth. Hit me with your best shot. Bring on everything you’ve got. I can take it and a heck of a lot more. I AM UNSTOPPABLE!
You ROCK!

Scott Tousignant












Hey Scott,
Thanks for this. I think this is one of your best posts ever, because it applies to me. I especially loved the comment “Don’t jut hope for it to happen… EXPECT it to happen.
Thanks for the kick.
Thanks for your feedback Felecia. There certainly is a huge difference between hoping for success and expecting it.
Thanks Scott! That’s exactly what I needed after a very off the wagon week. I guess it’s important to distinguish between blaming yourself and taking responsibility for your actions (or lack thereof). I am better than my efforts this week and I can refocus my energy to get back on track towards my goals. Here’s to being better today than I was yesterday and better tomorrow than today!
You got it Leigh Ann! Focus on growth. You got knocked down and now it’s time to get back up and keep moving forward.
You ROCK!
Thanks Scott – you and Angie changed my life a little over a year ago. I will always be thankful for your unstoppable fat loss program. You are an inspiration.
DaveT
Dave you totally inspire both Angie and I. I think that’s one of the coolest things about our profession. We can inspire others and when you apply what we teach and experience great success as you have, you end up inspiring us even more.
We’re so grateful to know you Dave
Good clip.
When it come to exorcising self-limiting beliefs, the manifesto is “Psyco-cybernetics” by Maxwell Maltz.
Check it out. You won’t be sorry
sj
So true. Psycho Cybernetics is definitely one of the all time greats.
I REALLY enjoyed this little kick in the butt today, Scott! Oh Wise One, Rocky. The last two days have been a real bear for me. After watching the video and reading your post, I got up and did some of my favorite free weight exercises just to stretch out and feel good. This new motivational speaker, Rocky Balboa, is really something. Ha Ha!!!
Seriously, thanks for the kick in the butt. My brain sometimes knows these things, but my heart needs to be reminded. Thanks!
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Your words ring so true, Scott. They are a great reminder of who we are and what we should stand for. This is very inspiring and came at the right moment for us.
My daughter and I are finishing our fourth week of a 12-week challenge. Your post
has put an extra kick on our efforts.
Thank you.
Needed this kick in the butt!! More often than not, we do not even realize that we are sabotaging ourselves! Thanks Scott for this very inspiring post & video.
Take care.
WOW!!! That hit me like a truck. Who knew Rocky could make you think deep! I used to think there is a reason for everything—-I guess now it should be there’s a reason Im doing this!!
thanks great post –the best you’ve ever had on here.
Had to post again- after reading this this morning I had such a great today!! Take it to heart and always move forward-fast or slow-just move forward!!
Hey Scott!
I started walking again to add cardio to my Quickies and guess what? This is the first time in YEARS that I’ve started up my walking program WITHOUT getting out of breath or feeling clumsy! I walked ALL the hills around my neighborhood without a problem and stayed out there for 90 minutes!
I credit you and my Quickies for that! I don’t know if you or anyone reading this has ever experienced the “slug-to-exercise-to-slug-to-exercise” thing, but whenever I slack off during the winter and then start up walking again in the spring, I always feel out of shape, sloppy, and, weird as it may seem, really really clumsy. You know, like I forgot how to walk.
Well, this winter I stuck with my Quickies and I took off like I’d never quit! Thanks Scott! I’m thinking all that muscle building and balancing has helped me tremendously.
I’ll tell you what; if you’re reading this and you don’t think doing 10 minutes a day of free weights is going to make a difference in your life, you are sadly mistaken.
I may not be as slim as I’d like to be right now, but because I’m doing my Quickies, I feel strong and I can walk with strength, confidence, and incredible balance.
I can’t wait to get back on my bike when the weather’s nice to see how I do! Yippee!
Scott, This is such a great movie clip and you picked out things that I really needed to hear! I have had this post up in my browser for days now so I could review it often! Thanks!
love this article and movie clip. It came to me at the right time…even months after you had posted it!